Book 2 #50BookPledge / You Don’t Need a Job! You Need Guts

Book 2 of the #50BookPledge

You Don’t Need a Job! You Need Guts
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by Ashley Ambirge

~Founder, The Middle Finger Project

I have been following Ashley’s e-newsletter for sometime now. When she announced the launch of this book I jumped at the chance to pre-purchase it at the discounted price. I needed to know HOW. How do I make a living online, working from home or anywhere else a darn well please? (Okay I am not as brave as Ashley when it comes to freedom of language, but you get my drift). How do I do it? And how do I find the guts to do so?

I started reading as soon as it was released, then life happened. If you’ve read any of my blog over the last 2 months’ posts you have a small understanding of what I mean. It just totally got in the way, and the reading and the planning and the action, got pushed to the backburner. But now I am ready to start my own momentum going, and I started with reading Ashley’s ebook, and another great new website I found (I will review one of her ebooks soon as well).


Ashley follows a similar philosophy on life as Chris Guillebeau, whose book Art of Non-Conformity I reviewed last year. And the fact is, this is the kind of life I want. One with the freedom to go, do and be – where and what I please. One with the satisfaction of making a difference, leaving a legacy, knowing that it meant something to me and to those my activities effected.

Ashley offers some really great tips on how to go about getting started, including step by step guidance in setting up the mechanism(s) for income. Some of this was confirmation of information I already had, some of it was brand new (and exciting). Ashley’s book has given me the know-how to set in motion the dreaming I have not yet put feet to. It’s time, and I have Ashley to thank for resources to help me get started!



*Edit 9:15pm 11 Jan 2012 This is now an affiliate link, I love this book that much!   🙂

You Don’t Need a Job! You Need Guts
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50BookPledge/Book1: “Knit the Season”

50BookPledge/Book1:

Knit the Season” – Kate Jacobs

~a review

As part of the #50bookpledge I am going to review every book I read in 2012 with BIG hopes of reading and reviewing 50 books this year.

This is the first of the print books I have finished, however I do have a couple of ebooks I read this week and also intend to review.

Knit The Season was the third book in a series/trilogy(?) of a knitting club brought together by the fabulous Georgia Walker. Each book has its side stories of the different characters involved and how their lives are all intertwined, initially due to their relationship with Georgia. Friday Night Knitting Club was the first and by far my favourite. Something seems to be lost in each proceeding book, with Knit Two and then “Knit the Season”. However, if looking for a light friendly read. These are great ones to pick up.


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2012 To Be Read (TBR) Challenge

I have decided to seek another challenge or two to help me meet some of my 12in12 commitments, one being: the 2012 To Be Read (TBR) Challenge (as I heard about via a friend’s book review blog).

Some of these books have been on one of my shelves for more than ten years. The to-be-read pile became a to-be-read shelf, then 2 shelves, and now… well I don’t know yet. I’m not yet organized since our move. I did however receive 3 books for Christmas in addition to the half dozen I have accumulated since moving. But, shhhh, don’t tell you-know-who! 😉

My to-be-read books for 2012 follow:

The Bluest Eye – Toni Morrison

Pillars of the Earth – Ken Follet

The Widow of the South – Robert Hicks

Animal Farm – George Orwell

Life of Pi – Yaan Martel

Cry, The Beloved Country (Oprah’s Book Club) – Alan Paton

The Known World: A Novel – Edward D. Jones

Midwives – Chris Bohjalian

The Book Thief – Markus Zusak

Oryx and Crake – Margaret Atwood

Here On Earth – Alice Hoffman

Unless – Carol Shields

Alt:

Charming Billy – Alice McDermott

Wuthering Heights – Emily Brontë

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12 in 12 – Month 1 – Day 2

30 minute walk complete.

Weather was really awful, and I had no idea what time to expect my children to be dropped off by their dad, so I opted to use the treadmill to get my walk in anyway in the morning. After reading more from Steve Kamb about barefoot running on Nerd Fitness I decided to try barefoot walking. I could definitely feel a difference in my stride, etc. Otherwise, I came off unscathed. Perhaps I’ll try again sometime.

People ask when I have a regular fitness routine how I fit it all in. Having a treadmill certainly helps. I actually don’t mind walking on the treadmill … because I can read! Try doing that safely outdoors! (I’ll admit to listening to audiobooks when walking/running sometimes though). I’m reading a light read right now: “Knit the Season” by Kate Jacobs. It’s book three of a series I quite enjoy about a bunch of women with intertwined lives and friendships.

Somehow every escape story I have turned to since mom’s passing has had something in it about a mother (or other parent) dieing, and frequently of cancer. This is no exception, which I’d forgotten, however that actually happened in a previous book. Now people are getting on with things. Hopefully that’s me/us too.

So that helped to get the walk done, thanks to a little prodding from my hubby.

The rest of the day was spent finishing putting Christmas away, researching online, and shopping with my girlies.

Tomorrow? Who knows, but there will be a 30 min. walk in there somewhere!

How are your new year’s resolutions or 2012 commitments coming?

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Life’s balance, demands and sacrifices / “Left Neglected” response

I just finished a great book that demonstrated some of my own take on the need for balance in life. Left Neglected is about a corporate mom, with a highly successful and demanding career, living a very fast-paced life with her husband and three children. She is forced to change everything when she has a car accident (because of using her cell phone while driving) and becomes a rehabilitation patient with Left Neglect.

My life was certainly never as fast-paced as hers, nor was the extent of the impact that a demanding life had on me physically. I did however find myself in over my head, with my body telling me I had to make a change. Fibromyalgia, flare-ups, migraines, insomnia, etc. …all are effected by- if not caused by – burning the candle at both ends.

I have always struggled with finding a balance. I love working, and have a strong desire to be a leader and innovator. On the other hand I also love having time to focus on my family. I swung on a pendulum between wanting it all and wanting none of “it” a couple of times before finally coming to the decision that I simply cannot have it all, and won’t be happy with one extreme or the other. So I made a conscious decision to seek a middle ground: part-time employee and part-time at-home parent.

For me life is almost in perfect balance. With a part-time, meaningful job in my field, and the ability to be flexible enough to meet my children’s needs (with the help of my very dedicated spouse) I am more content than I have been for years. I still find myself (often) straying down the path of needing to be busier, and more successful – I have to reign myself in. I have given myself permission to become involved in some personal projects that I can work on at whatever pace works for me at the time. This means sometimes when I have too much on my plate they must take a back burner, but when things slow down they are there for me to pick back up again. 🙂

Balance is whatever works for you. Some people thrive on their careers and find balance in hiring nurturing caregivers that become part of the family. Others choose not to have children at all. Some choose parenthood over the workforce and might return to a career later in life, if ever.

Mostly balance requires accepting the choices we make,while acknowledging that we are the lucky ones. There are few things in life that we don’t have some sort of choice in.

*Left Neglected, by Lisa Genova was provided by Simon & Schuster Canada as a complimentary copy, for participation in the EverythingMom.com National Book Club.

The Unconventional Book Tour – Halifax stop

On Tuesday evening I had the pleasure of hearing Chris Guillebeau on his Unconventional Book Tour speaking about his book: The Art of Non-Conformity. I was fortunate to be selected to receive an advanced copy of the book, and have posted previously about it here.

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What I love about Chris is his ability to bring people together who also want to live unconventional remarkable lives. He has an easy way of speaking (and writing) that feels informal and welcoming. While he didn’t say anything that was new to me (I had already read the book), he was refreshing to listen to. The “question and attempted answer” portion was certainly the most insightful for me. But what I liked best was how friendly and willing to share everyone who came out to hear Chris speak were! It felt like a club meeting, especially when a group of us, including Chris, headed out for drinks afterwards.

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I really hope I have opportunities to cross paths with Chris in the future. And I would recommend to anyone who wants to take the road less traveled or a create new road to check Chris out for inspiration!

Go rain on your own parade!

I’m working on a business plan. In an effort to come up with a good one, I wrote a survey monkey survey that I’ve been asking my friends to complete and share. If you’d like to help me out, it can be found here: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/RPMMPQD

Someone wrote a comment in the first question of my survey about whether one would join a bookswap site: “It’s called a library. It already exists.” My immediate reaction was “You A$$!” I mean: “Everyone is entitled to their opinion, thank you for sharing yours”. So, you don’t like my plan, you can simply say that you’d never use such a service yourself. Is it really necessary to rain on my parade?

I’m not going to let that one get to me.  But it got me thinking though: Do people not have any perspective outside of their own?  Not all solutions work for all people.  Period.

Even IF said respondent borrows every book they ever read (if they read books at all) from the library (never purchases even one book and then hoards, sells or gives it away) are we so blind to other people’s circumstances? I have been able to make much more use of the library lately than I had for a long time. I have much more time available (albeit still very limited) to sit for chunks of time and focus on one activity. This hadn’t been so for many years though. While my girlies were borrowing books left, right and centre (and yes, they too have hoards of books of their own) I was finding it next to impossible to make it through a book that I borrowed prior to the due date. The life of a single working mother and student leaves little time for such leisure. It was sometimes taking me months to finish one book!

But suppose I wanted to read something in particular from the library, I’d put in a book hold/request. Did you know that your local library does not own a copy of every single book title in existence?! I know. I was shocked to learn it myself. There were actually books I could not borrow/request from my local public library (and therefore had to purchase).

Now suppose that the book I requested was one of the more popular titles, I could be on a list as long as 100 requests for a title that the library owned 8 copies of. Not only did I have to wait up to several months for a title to come in, but I was then limited to it’s immediate due date. “No renewal”s were allowed for popular titles because there were so many holds on it proceeding me. I’d regularly end up returning the long awaited book, unfinished, upon its due date.

These are two of my frustrations with library loans. It’s even applicable to e-pub books!

But what if… what IF… I just want to have that book in my home to read at my leisure? What if I don’t want to return it ever, but think I might like to read it again? And again? And again? Is it so bad to purchase a book?  Is it so bad that at some point in time it might occur to me that I’m not actually going to read the book again anytime soon? And decide then that someone else may as well get some enjoyment out of it?  Sure, I can sell it to a used bookseller, but I won’t get much for it. It certainly won’t buy me another book. Yet, if I trade book for book, or credit for credit, I could get a book of the same value without being out any additional funds. AND no one will tell me, that I have to read and return that book in three weeks!

Oh sure there are libraries that already exist. They’re just not convenient to me.

But you know what? There are also grocery stores, coffee shops, book STORES, gyms, toy stores, etc. that already exist. That doesn’t stop entrepreneurs who think they have a shot at offering something unique, better, more convenient, or even in addition to meet high demand etc. from opening up shop. In fact, there are new libraries opening in cities, where libraries already exist!

Growth and development. What a concept.

The Art of Non-Conformity – a book response

I have read enough postings on Chris Guillebeau‘s webpage to know that when my free copy of his book The Art of Non-Conformity arrived, I’d want to isolate myself somewhere where I could curl up and read it cover to cover, uninterrupted. Unfortunately my J-O-B, and family obligations were not going to allow that to happen.  I decided to wait until the next day to start the book, when I could choose to take transit to work, and allow myself a large chunk of time to read. A week later, I have finished.

When I first started reading Chris’ website I was skeptical.  Free e-books always seem to come with catches that I had no interested in signing myself up for.  And “World Domination” sounded a little gimmicky.

So, I started with reading articles on his webpage, finally intrigued enough (and my skepticism satisfied enough) to download his guide.
While I was going through this and becoming more and more excited about what Chris had to say, he offered an opportunity for 100 readers to receive an advance copy of his book, and I was thrilled to learn I’d been one of the many many entries chosen. With no obligation to promote Chris’ book, I had a chance to better get to know his ideas, and am considering whether I should sign on for his Build An Empire – unconventional guide. I’m still undecided, mainly because I need to prioritize my time first.

I feel like I’ve found a kindred spirit in Chris. His book repeated much of what I’ve read on his website, but elaborated on many ideas. It left me feeling inspired to make up my mind and take action. I feel as though I’ve been fence sitting for many years, constantly exploring options, but making few leaps (but for a few conventional ones).

I have food for thought, and a place to begin the next stage of my explorations, putting something ANYTHING that I feel passionate about into action.

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The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo / ACK!

Every week one out of three days my spouse takes the responsibility of driving the “childcare taxi” and I get to leave my car at home and use an alternate form of transportation to commute to work. When I can’t cycle commute, I usually opt to take transit. I look forward to using my commute time to catch up on reading. This morning as I waited for the #80 I sat with my book hoping that I could turn the final page by the time I got to my destination. I looked up as a woman passed by on her morning walk. She saw my book, and couldn’t help but stop and ask how I was enjoying it. My immediate response: “I’m not, or at least wasn’t until about 100 pages ago.” was met with shock! “Your kidding!? I loved the book, and I’ve never before talked to anyone else who didn’t love it too!”

I hear myself utter the words and question myself every time, why are you still reading it? Why not move on to something better? The truth is that when it comes to books I am stubborn. I can’t stand to think I didn’t give it a chance. Everyone kept telling me that it would get better. Plus, I had to to discover what all the hype was about! Why do so many people love this godawful book SO much?!

I never did discover the answers. Granted, the book got more interesting finally around page six hundred and thirty five. But you know when a book is more than 800 pages long, and takes that long to become interesting, sometimes I feel compelled to put it down just so I don’t have to experience the dismay of it ending. I invest so much time and energy in getting to the good part, and then it just ends. In a flash.

For those who loved this book and cannot fathom why I didn’t. You are advised to stop reading, now. The rest of this post is only going to disappoint you further. I have to put into words just how much I disliked this book and why. I’d say I hated it, but it had a few redeeming qualities – although I can’t for the life of me identify what they were.

To begin with the book was just so dry and slow to get started. I know, there are people who are drooling at the mention of financial and corporate mumbo jumbo, but I’m not one of them. At first I excused it, waiting for the groundwork to be laid so we could jump into the story. Then the story took flight and I was waiting. And waiting. Waiting for some substance, some connection, some emotion. I never felt my wait was satisfied.

The characters felt detached, their relationships weren’t believable. I couldn’t imagine the people as existing. Conversations were stilted, like watching some really awful amateur actors attempting to pull off a school play with the direction of an inexperienced self-proclaimed director slash playwrite.

The book was filled with SO many unnecessary details that could have reduced it’s size to something much more manageable. Essentially to me this was a typical run-of-the-mill paperback. It deserved a run-of-the-mill paperback print limitation of about… oh I don’t know… 500 pages would be generous.

And yet the important details were left out that would have brought life to critical scenes. Instead these scenes left me with a bad taste in my mouth. I was truly angry that this author would have the gall to attempt to address the issues that he did, as they were handled so poorly and tastlessly.

And so I arrived at my destination, dismayed that I hadn’t quite finished the book before my final bus stop. The book waited for me. I finished it tonight. The best thing I can say about it right now? “It’s over.”

I don’t believe I will be reading the other two books in the triology.

Cooking for the Rushed: great cookbooks!

I am no Foodie. In fact I find the daily cooking to be a chore I rarely look forward to. I do enjoy (VERY occasionally) planning and preparing a big dinner for a group (i.e. family holidays). But otherwise, it’s not my favourite activity. That being said I am a health-conscious mom and an environmentally conscious citizen. I want to feed my family healthy choices, and use sustainable, nutritious food. We’re not vegetarian, but we don’t eat large quantities of meat. We eat mostly organic, and local produce from a farm share.

This spring my friends introduced me to Sandi Richard: Cooking for the Rushed, who has the program “Fixing Dinner” on Canada’s “Food Network”. We’re not TV watchers, and we haven’t got cable (or satellite) television, so I had no idea who she was or what she did. Her system of weekly menu plans with master grocery lists are ingenious! I had been attempting to be organized, making my own weekly plans, but had never thought to go the extra step with preparing master grocery lists. As soon as I had the chance I ordered the only two books available through Indigo online at the time: “The Family Dinner Fix” and “Dinner Survival”. I love them!

For the spring and early summer we have been eating fantastic and rarely felt that awful end of day “what are we going to feed these kids” crankiness that was often overcoming me previously (and had prompted my own attempts at menu planning). We’ve eaten variety, usually had plenty of leftovers in the fridge for packing lunches, and tried many new things! Then summer rolled around and our farm share harvests really revved up again. I began to find the menus more challenging. While the cookbooks offer great variety, nutritional value and interest, they are not planned around local food availability.

I have a wish now, that Sandi will make a new edition for Canadian local food consumers – or even better, for Atlantic Canadians 😉