Beach sunset in photos

I don’t think anything quite compares to a beach sunset or sunrise

Port Maitland Beach Nova Scotia - July 2014

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With just a little patience one can capture a 100 different images of exactly the same place within moments.

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Much like life, the only real constant on the beach is change… How do you embrace change in your life?

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Beach therapy – a photo essay

Beach therapy – a photo essay

Beach Therapy

Nova Scotia Beaches – May 2014

 

Something about a beach just cleanses my soul.

Beach Therapy

Beach Therapy

Beach Therapy

Beach Therapy

 

 

Where do you go for a little reboot?

 

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Spring on Nova Scotia shores

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Deserted beaches are my favourite place. They cleanse my soul. Where do you go to rejuvenate your mind?

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Lifestyle changes – taking charge

May 13 / Mother's Day - by Kate Inglis

I have done and tried a lot of different things in the hopes of feeling better, for the last two years I just sort of stopped making any real effort at all. Now I’m ready for a big change. Bigger lifestyle changes than I’ve ever made. One that will result in (hopefully) me feeling better, more rested, more energetic, less pain, better head space… I’m not talking about a diet or a new year’s resolution to get fit and lose a few pounds. I’m talking a complete haul-over. I am going to reboot, reset and hopefully establish a whole new baseline to operate from.

 I am sick and tired of feeling sick and tired… How many times have you heard that one before?

How about this one: the definition of insanity is doing the same thing, expecting different results… ?

So the new plan is:

Take all of the bad stuff out of the diet, put all of the good stuff in.

Make a daily routine that includes all of the activities that I know will support the kind of healthy lifestyle I am trying to achieve.

 

No more processed crap, no more sitting and hurting, less mindless head-spinning, more mindful head-clearing.

 

I want a day that includes a morning ritual, healthy work habits, and an evening routine that sets the stage… for a restful night’s sleep.

 

What do I hope to achieve? The simple answer… a life as close to pain-free as possible. The more elaborate… happiness, both in state of mind and physical being.

 

So much of what is recommended for a healthy lifestyle in general is priority for someone living with fibromyalgia to become better able to function. The details of the plan (daily moderate exercise, regular sleep, and omitting foods that are known to be bad for my condition: gluten; refined sugars; processed foods; dairy and soy) aren’t as important to me in making this happen as how I will make it stick.

 

What’s it going to take to keep on keepin’ on when it gets really tough? Some things come naturally to me – logging/journaling a lifestyle change is what started me on the blogging path eight years ago. Hold myself accountable by sharing my journey online. 

 

What else? I know I need goals and some sort of reward that I am working towards achieving. I am goal driven. This is the part I have deliberated over the most. I will track and evaluate my progress – there are great apps and other tools out there for this purpose. Once I’ve identified my goals and how I am going to reach them, I will create a focus board to refer to and remind me of what I am ultimately trying to do.

 

Here are a few of the things I’m working on:

 

Diet changes:

No gluten, refined sugars or processed foods, white breads/grains

Get back to eating a diet high in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean protein – i.e. fish, walnuts

Prepare: breakfast foods ahead of time (i.e. steal cut oats, smoothie mixes); lunches ahead (i.e. quinoa/bean salads); and menu plan suppers (slowcooker and/or prep ahead meals) in advance

 

Let’s be clear here, I intend to enjoy life and there are a few things I have no intention of giving up in the foreseeable future: espresso coffee (but will switch mostly to decaf), dark chocolate, red wine…

 

Changes to my routine:

Rise early; exercise; practise mindfulness; eat breakfast; lunchtime break – walk? Swim?; evening walks & yoga; prepare the next day’s meals; reading/writing; bed early… sticking with a regular bed & wake time

Do you have any specific goals/plans? What do they look like?

 

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Spring blizzard

So we’re into spring big time in the Maritimes. It’s the way we do it. The Saint Patrick’s Day blizzard came a little late this year. 😉

Spring snow drifts

I’ve always been a fan of winter, when it comes and stays. I’ve lived in Nova Scotia for the majority of my years, but have been all over Canada, and I must say, our winters suck. This has been the coldest winter in about a decade. Without exaggeration, and still it’s been a constant freeze-thaw-freeze-thaw-freeze… < kind of feels like the opposite of my love life – which has been more of a fire and water sort of deal. I guess I shouldn’t complain. At least I’ve had a love life >… and at least we’ve had some snow and ice for skating on.

 

But I’m ready for the cycle to change. Spring is a lovely time of year, full of blossoms and buds… and a whole lot of snow. Well, that’s been our spring so far. Actually very few buds, no blossoms… and a whole lot of snow. < Much more *like* my love life recently. 😉 >.

 

Spring’s arrival requires a great deal of patience. Actually, spring doesn’t care how patient we are – it arrives when it’s good and ready. < I am beginning to feel the same way personally. It doesn’t matter how patient, or prepared I am. My match will make his appearance when he’s good and ready. I just hope I don’t go into a permanent seasonal affective disorder while waiting. And no, I’m not looking for any spring fling to bridge the gap >.

 

I’m not very good at waiting.

My bicycle is wearing a hole in the barn floor, my wetsuit is jumping off of the hanger shouting out to me “let’s go for a swim” and my running shoes are kicking themselves to the curb in anticipation. I always start with running. It’s been a tough couple of years, with a whole lot of stress and little stress relief. I got into a bad rut with knee pain that I just couldn’t kick, and I seemed to lose all interest in training. I became a non-recovering-runner and swam occasionally and barely made use of my trail bike. My road bike hung up her sneaks three seasons ago, and I’ve yet to re-tread them. But, I’ve decided this year is *the* year. Running is going to happen, even if I have to run through the pain. That may not sound smart, but if I can regain my sense of self it will be well worth it. Swimming is a given. And cycling is going to be a gradual progression from trail to road.

 

< I’m hoping when I regain my sense of self, that everything else will fall in place in the personal / romance world >s. And I know that while I can’t will spring along any faster, I can certainly make a conscious choice to take advantage of every hint of spring that comes along.

I hope you know who you are.

Who am I to say that I know? I don’t know today from tomorrow, or even yesterday most of the time. One day bleeding into the next while I trudge along trying to live in the moment but feeling much more like I’m barely surviving.

What does my life consist of? Work, mom’s taxi service duty, cooking, cleaning, attempting to organize our home piece by piece, a bunch of text messages, the odd phone call, a little social media networking (far removed from more recent days’ activities, much less time than I’d like connecting with my girlies, and a few really great moments with someone special… I’m not complaining.

It’s not a bad life. I’m just tired. And honestly, I look forward to the day that I am actually looking for something to do… photography, reading and writing have all taken a backseat, even my social media presence is limited. I am not running. And I am not involved in any community efforts.

Those who know me well, know that the mere fact that I am not making time for even one of my passions is bordering on reason for concern. While I’m in no need of an intervention (yet) I do need to find time to slow down. There are no boxes left in my living room. Most of the pictures are hung on the walls. My bedroom is almost clear of packages to sort through. The kitchen is nearly complete. My office/hobby room must be next on the list.  If I don’t find the time/space to focus on my passions, I’m going to become that whiny complainer inside me that I despise.

For the sake of my children, co-workers, friends, family, and hunny, I cannot allow that side of me to surface. At least not when I know what vibrant, fun and enlightening experiences come my way when in the right mindset.

Every person comes into our life for a reason. Every experience, good or “bad” has a lesson to be learned. I truly believe this. Right now I have opportunities. Each and every one of us do. How I choose to respond to those opportunities IS ultimately a choice.

Right now, I want to knock down the walls I’ve been building and start fresh. Rather than build walls, I want to strengthen the foundation and use it to create a bridge to new horizons.

There is so much yet to be explored, experienced, learned… I want to go in new directions while living it, and sharing that life in partnership… with my children, my family, and most importantly, my love. I hope you know who you are.

 

2013 Ford C-max

I like to drive cars built for the purpose I need. So, aside from a fun test drive, you won’t likely ever see me driving a pickup truck or even a hot sports car < as much as I do admittedly lust after the Shelbys, Jaguars, and Sting Rays… > This is why I was so interested in road testing the Ford C-Max, it’s meant to be my car. It’s a hybrid  < which I WISH I could afford >, it’s compact, yet roomy enough for my girlies and I to comfortably travel long distances. It has ample cargo space for our day-today use. I’ll say it now, if I *were* to make an upgrade from my beloved little Focus hatchback, this would definitely be my pick.

Ford C-Max roadtrip starts at Cafe Brea

The only negatives I noted while driving this week were lack of adjustable arm rests and some SYNC errors. For longer drives especially, I really wished I had an arm rest that was better situated. The one on the door is too high, and too far from my body. And I’m not sure what was happening with SYNC, but it froze when I was attempting to do a voice activated search < I don’t THINK I have a strong Canadian or Bluenosers’ accent, but SYNC doesn’t seem to recognize much of what I say >, we no longer had music or navigation, and even after stopping the car in order to shut it off and start up again, it didn’t reboot. A longer stop a little further down the road finally did the trick.

What did I love? Aside from the improvement in fuel economy over my already efficient Focus and my surprise at its performance on the highlands roads… I loved how roomy the little compact car felt. Sitting up a little higher off of the road and having just enough leg room in the back seat was great < not that *I* sat there, but my 9 & 12 year old girls did >.

The extra features that the car had added to the experience of driving, with Sirius radio being a big bonus in Cape Breton, where the radio signal is often sketchy; searching for points of interest like coffee shops made navigating the “larger” community of Sydney seem almost like we’d been there before.

FordCMax in Sydney Cape Breton

I’ll never grow tired of the convenience of keyless entry, auto-lift tail-gates or the super helpful rear-view back-up camera. I still find the park assist a little challenging to use. It may not always recognize a space that is sufficient, and feels slow – like I’m holding up traffic in attempting to use it. < This was especially problematic in downtown Baddeck and Cheticamp, Cape Breton, Nova Scotia in April : wink, wink >

Ford CMax Cheticamp Cape Breton

The heated leather seats with adjustable lumbar support made for a very comfortable ride, especially on this spring roadtrip through the Cape Breton Highlands, where those responsive brakes were very reassuring on the winding mountain terrain.

Ford CMax Cape Breton

My favourite thing by far was watching how the drive, the conditions, and my performance as the driver affected the fuel efficiency < yes, I know I’m a bit of a geek – and proud of it! >

 

 

 

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Great things | come from change

Great Things come from change

To Twitter stalk / Facebook creep or not to?

I understand people’s desire to “stalk” others online for info/insights. Yet, nothing irks me more than someone who is NOT online, taking to the online world to research others…

I initiate almost everything in life online. My communication with even my closest friends and family generally happens via email, facebook message, or perhaps text message. I hate talking on the phone, and don’t enjoy facetime/video conferences. I’ve always been one to put my thoughts into writing. So it would only seem to fit than when I became single again and was ready for the next change, I went online for dating too.

That isn’t to say I prefer online contact – I like face to face personal interaction most of all, but we live busy lives, and are often far removed from the people we are closest to (my dad lives in Florida six months of the year; my brother lives in Asia, for more than eight of the last nine years; my highschool best friend is a 3.5hr drive from me; some of my closest friends with whom I have most frequent/daily contact are hundreds of kilometers away).

Meeting people online, whether they be friends, potential business partners, potential dates or even life partners just makes sense. We make the initial contact, determine if we have commonalities to go on and then build on those in person. Some of my greatest friends and supports in life I met online, via running forums, Twitter, and yes Facebook. Some are old acquaintances with whom I reconnected online and became closer to than ever before.

I see nothing wrong with getting to know new friends, business partners, even potential lovers better through various mediums online. I’ve added friends on Facebook simply to see what kinds of interests they participate or take the most pride in. I’ve met fantastic people through twitter conversations and eventually met them offline  “in real life”/IRL – for in person contact. Some fantastic photographers have become good friends and all because of online contact that lead to IRL activites.

Facebook Creeping   twitter stalking

 

That being said, we can also form preconceived ideas about people without giving them a chance to really show their true colours in real life. Counselors often make a practice of not reading case notes prior to first meeting with clients, in order to ensure an unbiased open approach to a relationship.

< AND There is something to be said for good ol’ small talk and old-fashioned interrogation on a first date. 😉 >

Yes, I want to know that I’m not going to be sitting through an hour of breathing in someone’s cigarette smoke during that first meeting. Yes, I want some idea that we’ll have some common ground to meet on and talk about; that I can be fairly certain that he’s a decent guy who won’t make me endure endless racial slurs; but what we see online is only what someone chooses to make visible   < remember to never post online anything you wouldn’t want your boss to find out. 😉 >   And honestly, I like the old fashioned getting to know a new person, friend, business contact, love interest over coffee.

So, rather than Twitter stalk and creep Facebook BEFORE meeting, why not setup a meeting in a safe location, determine if there is any connection/chemistry/spark, then do the stalking later 😉

< I still like to find out more about people I already know by creeping their photos and status updates once in a while… >

 

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